Spending time with my sons and my husband

Happy Friday!
I was able to spend time with aileron.

You thought, what?! You stay home and you are spending time with your son every day.
Actually, No.
Elysian needs me 24 hours. He cries most of the time. It’s been tough. Aileron is playing by himself.
Today, I was actually able to sit down and talk and play with him.
The best thing is I get to tell him how much I love him. 💕 well l, I tell him every day like often times.

We dropped off our sons to babysitter and we went to 5 languages of love class. It was Amazing! The food was great! They had fish, steak, salad, squids, vegetables and dessert! The class was great because I was able to recognize what kind of love that Arkhe needs.
He needs acts of service.
5 languages of love actually changes often times. His needs might change 6 months from now.
One thing that I wanna work on is to take care of kids when Arkhe is studying. He needs to focus. Sometimes, kids distract him by crying. I will make sure that I will take them to outside or stay in one room so that he can focus.


Don’t be surprise!
Few month ago, I told Arkhe, “ Hey, I hate doing laundry.” I will never ever do laundry.
I don’t do it because I get frustrated when I see piles of clothes. I don’t like that. I don’t wanna fold them. I don’t wanna put in the laundry machine and push button to start. I think that’s waste of time lol
But I decided to do it tomorrow even though I hate it. Why? Because I think that’s acts of service lol

My languages of love was quality time.
Yes. I need alone quality time. I actually wanna sit down or laying down without any distraction.
Arkhe needs to take two kids outside. If they are at home, I can hear their crying and it doesn’t work. I’m a on call mom. If Arkhe takes them outside for 30 min or 1 hour, I get to recharge myself.
I need to have my alone time so that I will be happy mom every day.